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Ah isn’t that a warm and fuzzy thought?
You smash my heart into a million bits and you ask, “can we still be friends”….I liked the ’still’ term interjected in there.
Still? Why of course, I mean – the whole cheating on me and then dumping me well…that is just how it goes, and I know I certainly couldn’t call someone a friend unless I knew I could royally screw them over.
See when you ‘use’ someone it is win-win situation for you.
You get your cake and eat it too (ok maybe it isn’t cake per se, but you get the idea).
Ah ya have to really respect those that find sex to define a relationship, they really have their heads screwed on straight right?
Um, no….the threads that have their heads screwed on are so stripped and mangled, that it’s more of a jammed on thing that securely screwed on setup.
50% of marriages fail is the stat that seems to be engrained into us.
And yes, sometimes things in a marriage just make it unworkable.
But sometimes it just becomes a waiting game, to see how one party can wait out the other.
For if they hook up with someone, then they just become cold to their spouse, and bide their time for said spouse to get the hint and bail out.
And PRESTO….really soo after said departure the new relationship goes full tilt.
Just occurred to me, how someone can tell you they love you and be ’seeing’ someone else – it’s a backup plan.
Sort of a parachute, like let’s say you have a ‘relationship’ that starts online, well it might work out just marvelously – OR, since you aren’t ‘in the flesh’ they might find someone close by to ‘fill the gap’ that is created by you not being there.
Yea yea…the weak and willing flesh will funk things up everytime.
I saw that on a sign inside an old abandoned building recently. I assume it referenced the former contents of case, that I believe held an axe or something that if there’d have been a fire…well you get the idea.
Anyways having recently gone through a nasty ‘breakup’ – well I am not get “finished” going through it all, so I may be wrong to say I have ‘gone’ through a breakup.
I’m in the very depths and worst part of it all.
Sure the best advice anyone usually can come up with is something like…”Well you are better off without them”…or “Move on and forget about that blankety-blank”.
And true, all we can do is move past such moments, even if they are hurtful. No matter the circumstances.
Even if the person on the other end of the breakup LIED and CHEATED on you.
Yes, for in such instances they didn’t “mean to hurt” you, in fact they “didn’t even realize they were developing feelings for someone else”…HOLD IT!?
Maybe I am dense and thick as a brick in my thinking, but how can you tell someone you love them, and yet be ’seeing’ someone else and there’s no conflict internally?????
