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Ah isn’t that a warm and fuzzy thought?
You smash my heart into a million bits and you ask, “can we still be friends”….I liked the ’still’ term interjected in there.
Still? Why of course, I mean – the whole cheating on me and then dumping me well…that is just how it goes, and I know I certainly couldn’t call someone a friend unless I knew I could royally screw them over.
See when you ‘use’ someone it is win-win situation for you.
You get your cake and eat it too (ok maybe it isn’t cake per se, but you get the idea).
Ah ya have to really respect those that find sex to define a relationship, they really have their heads screwed on straight right?
Um, no….the threads that have their heads screwed on are so stripped and mangled, that it’s more of a jammed on thing that securely screwed on setup.
50% of marriages fail is the stat that seems to be engrained into us.
And yes, sometimes things in a marriage just make it unworkable.
But sometimes it just becomes a waiting game, to see how one party can wait out the other.
For if they hook up with someone, then they just become cold to their spouse, and bide their time for said spouse to get the hint and bail out.
And PRESTO….really soo after said departure the new relationship goes full tilt.
Just occurred to me, how someone can tell you they love you and be ’seeing’ someone else – it’s a backup plan.
Sort of a parachute, like let’s say you have a ‘relationship’ that starts online, well it might work out just marvelously – OR, since you aren’t ‘in the flesh’ they might find someone close by to ‘fill the gap’ that is created by you not being there.
Yea yea…the weak and willing flesh will funk things up everytime.
